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February 4, 2010 ·

People Watching Discipleship ~ A Beautiful Pair

Church life· Godliness· Spiritual Growth

Do you watch people? Honestly? Are you willing to admit it? While at the mall or sitting in the park or waiting for church to start …. Are you a “people watcher”? I admit it. I am. I love to watch people. People are fascinating! I learn so much about myself, others, and my Maker when I watch people.

While wandering around Target the other day, I noticed 3 pairs of women caught up in conversations. The first pair was two women dressed in black and strolling a baby in a cart. The older was making her wealth of knowledge about … well, everything … known to the younger, who looked like she was in shock about all she was hearing about young motherhood, life, and … well, everything. I wasn’t TRYING to listen, but gal #1 made it hard not to hear her, and our shopping lists must’ve been in the same order.

Pair #2 consisted of one tall and rather elegant lady dressed in indigo blue, with a short silvery haircut and modern glasses. She was also sharing her wisdom rather openly, while standing at an intersection (no… IN the intersection) with a listening woman not a lot younger than she was. The listener was soaking in the info, only to stop the expert gal to ask, “When did you start using this approach in your life?” Lest you think I’m going to turn to spiritual things here, nay. (I rarely get to use the word “nay.”) They were all about supplements and exercise and food groups. I moved on.

I didn’t see Pair #3 until I was checking out with exciting things like paper towels and decongestant. I noticed them sitting at the snack area, with books and papers and a Bible laid out on the cafe table. One woman was about my age …. VERY youthful. 😉 She sat across from a lady WAY older than I am. Way. Anyway, I couldn’t hear their conversation. I would’ve moved closer, but then you’d think my people watching went too far. I noticed they seemed at ease with each other there in Target, comfortable. The older one referred to her Bible as they smiled and talked over what she pointed to.

It was beautiful. It was more than chattering about what WE think about life’s mundane things. It was more than spouting out what WE know about life’s many questions. It was a picture of two women discovering how God’s truth makes a difference in real life, shared from older to younger. It was a picture of discipleship. Discipleship is when God’s truth changes the way Jesus’ followers live life, and it happens one on one over God’s Word, in real life settings.

Have you been discipled? Do you know someone who has? If you have been walking with God, are you able to disciple a new believer in Jesus?

Three couples of women made of an older/younger pair. Three older ones sharing their perspectives on life. Three younger ones listening with anticipation. Three pairs in real life settings. One guiding another to be a disciple, a follower, of God …. and that’s something BEAUTIFUL to watch!

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  1. Courtney (Women Living Well) says

    February 4, 2010 at 8:01 am

    Amen! You are so right! Two sister's in Christ studying God's word = priceless! I was so blessed to be discipled in high school. My discipler is now a missionary in the Ukraine and even now as we "facebook" each other I learn so much from her life! What a blessing she was and still is – that friendship has roots that will never die! Truly priceless!

    Courtney
    http://www.womenlivingwell-courtney.blogspot.com

  2. Laurie Mitchell says

    February 4, 2010 at 9:09 am

    That's why it's SO important as Christians that we shine our light wherever we go, no matter what mood or circumstance we're in. Thanks for the reminder. 🙂

  3. Chaos Cottage says

    February 4, 2010 at 6:36 pm

    Oh, I have always loved to people watch. It can be a lot of fun.

    I have never been discipled. I have tried discipling myself with good books and workbooks written by very good Christian ladies. When I became a Christian (back in the dark ages), discipling was not something I had ever heard about.

    Pam

  4. Theresa says

    April 14, 2010 at 8:36 am

    I've never been discipled either but I long to see what that looks like. Shortly after I gave my live to Christ I moved from AZ to MN and sort of just had to figure it out on myown. Through the years I've read some really good books. I guess I was discipled by Elizabeth George 🙂

    I've also been a part of some really good Bible study groups that have had some discipling impact on my life but I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE an older Titus 2 relationship with someone.

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