Julie Sanders

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Life Off Line Challenge: Hospitality

Forgiveness· Hospitality· Parenting· Relationships

So in my blog planning notebook, today’s “Life Off Line Challenge” is “Hospitality.” I thought about sharing my favorite books on hospitality, writing about the guest books we’ve kept through the years, about the blessing of having people in your home, or about how you don’t have to have the latest color scheme to invite people in.  But then …

Monday night we were laying on the bed with our 17 year old daughter, talking about the rather typical teen issue of wanting/needing the car, and our conversation went from that to other things. Before I knew it, my words had been harsh, she felt turned away, and the door to her heart and mine closed off from one another. She left with watery eyes, and I turned to Jeff with a heavy mind. He gently welcomed me though I didn’t deserve it, invited me to be vulnerable, and shared what I needed to hear. I took the walk down the dark hallway to confess my sin of being inhospitable to my own, to ask Jo’s forgiveness and to give mine in return. 

It’s a good thing to be hospitable to strangers. Hospitality is so much in need in our world that many colleges even offer an online hospitality management degree. Hebrews 13:2 tells us to be hospitable to strangers, and that means working it out by opening our hands and homes OFF line. But true hospitality starts at home, by rolling out the welcome mat with our words and facial expressions and tones to those we live with. We can’t invite others to come and be served and encouraged if we don’t live Life Off Line that way at home. 

And I didn’t even get to tell you about the cute signs I use for coffee at parties … but that’s okay. My family knows how the kitchen works, and that’s where Hospitality off line starts.

Today’s Life Off Line Challenge:
– Do one special thing to prepare to “welcome” your family/roommates home, as a reminder to do so with your heart. Like … light a candle, make a sign to hang on the door, make some tea/coffee when you normally wouldn’t, or be AT the door to greet them. Then invite them into your heart.
– Next time your tongue takes over, stop and consider how you would say the same “content” to a stranger before you speak it to a loved one.

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  1. A_faith_stewart says

    Great read!  I decided a few years back that in this season of my life I needed to work harder on making my family feel loved, welcomed, and sheltered at home.  The day will come, and it is coming sooner rather than later I hope, when my children will be more self-sufficient and we will be in one place long enough to focus on hospitality to others.  I have TONS of ideas I am saving for that day too:) 

  2. Mary@The Calm of His Presence says

    "Next time your tongue takes over, stop and consider how you would say
    the same "content" to a stranger before you speak it to a loved one." ….ouch needed to hear that today. Thanks friend for the reminder to be hospitable to our own family.

  4. Julie_Sanders says

    Wise words. We've always had a habit of having people into our home, but I want our kids to know that we don't turn the "love switch" off when the guests leave. I want them to know it's authentic, starting with them.

    Julie Sanders
    http://www.comehaveapeace.blogspot.com

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  5. Jenny C. says

    Thank you for the practical example and reminder.  I really appreciated today's blog post. 

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