The year we ate a hog in the jungle for Thanksgiving, I learned the holiday isn't at all about grandma's house, family recipes, pilgrims, or even turkey. But I do love turkey and all those things. A lot. I love having a full heart with easy reasons overflowing into gratitude. And once I've turned ...
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I’m not sure if it’s harder to leave or be left. When was the last time someone left you? When was the last time you left? A job, a relationship, a place, a church, a ministry, or a direction? Was change joyful or painful, clear or shocking? Did you choose it, or was it thrust on you? Did it come ...
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No one enters parenthood in hopes their child will grow up to turn them away, push them away, or run away. But sometimes they do, and it breaks a parent's heart. Parents don't hope for Prodigals. That means that a week ago, on Mother's Day, a lot of moms grieved a painful relationship with a distant ...
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It’s a beautiful thing when the saints march in. Not just any saints. Gray-haired saints. These have walked longer roads, endured more suffering, and persevered for more contentment than those following behind. In a world that loves the young and exalts the new and less tried, it’s still profoundly ...
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The voice on the other end sounded overwhelmed. There was no need to point out that, along the way, past decisions started chipping away at present success. Not-so-big choices to let a few things go led to a single, hard-to-salvage outcome. A small challenge was now a big problem. Mercy came ...
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